Basically, the weed experience—from consumption to purchase to the actual high—is a lot less “one-size-fits-all” than it used to be. Getting into weed takes patience, and a good amount of trial and error. If you want to like weed but still feel freaked out, here’s what might be going on. Don’t be afraid to let your weed doula know if you’re freaking out, either—because even the most experienced stoner has been there in a big way. “I have plenty of friends I fuck with heavily that don't smoke weed and it's fine, as long as they don't care that I smoke weed,” Grimm said.