Dirty voice notes aren’t going to be for everyone. She says that when it comes to sending voice notes, the key is authenticity and not overthinking it. Maybe get used to sending regular voice notes first, she says, “Then get yourself in a space of sexiness. “Do not send unsolicited sexy voice notes to random people that you don’t know or haven’t been sexual with,” she says. Incorporate those in voice notes so you feel comfortable because it’s familiar.”When it comes to the actual voice part of the voice note, Gigi says it can be fun to lower your voice a touch – everyone loves a husky voice.